Family

When one thinks that he or she is above questioning, doubt, or that his or her mate should not evaluate their action, there is a problem.  How many times should one expose his or her concerns to the individual, how many conversations does one need about issues before he or she actively set forth to either correct, strengthen, or eradicate the situation?  Is it proper for one to say that he or she is doing this or that out of love and then throw it in the other persons face every time it is convenient?  The one that is doing all of the remindings is forgetting that the other person has also inspired, supported, and helped him or her as well, without the ever-so-often reminders.  Life-lessons are supposed to teach the individual that experienced the situation better methods of dealing with situations as well as making one aware of the signs of trouble, mannerisms, and other red flags that are meant to be warning signs.  So why would one get upset with one that ...

Families today come in all kind of shapes and sizes, single parent, grand parents head of house-whole, blended families, and so forth.  Some how individuals seems to lose focus on his or her family when it comes to making decisions that most likely effect the entire family.  Adolescents and adults alike, that one bad decision, that one thoughtless act, or that one selfish act can cause a family a life time of hurt, pain, and anguish; not to mention a boat load of money.  I've often told my children and grandchildren that we are like fingers on a hand; and I am the palm of the hand and the each of them were extended from me; they are my fingers.  Alone we can do simple thing, but all together we can do the impossible.  If one smashes a finger in the door or hit one with an object the WHOLE  hand hurts. Something as simple as a paper-cut  effects the hand, unknowingly; think about a paper-cut that you may have had, when you reach to grab something or to ...